My son has faced many challenges for much of his life. In school, he experienced bullying and isolation. He struggled academically, often becoming defiant and disengaged. Over time, these difficulties compounded into something far more serious—he reached a point where he felt he didn’t belong anywhere and, heartbreakingly, began to express thoughts of wanting to end his life.  Which he was hospitalized for attempting suicide at the young age of 11.  

Like many parents in similar situations, we did everything we could to help him find his footing. We sought therapy, encouraged participation in church youth groups, and tried to surround him with positive influences. While those efforts were important, he still struggled to find a place where he truly felt accepted—until he found rugby through 12th Rock.

Joining 12th Rock Rugby changed everything.

For the first time, my son found a community where he felt like he belonged. The friendships he formed there were different from what he experienced at school. They were built on encouragement, acceptance, and mutual respect. This was especially meaningful for a child who had never made a school sports team and often felt left behind by his peers.

Rugby, through 12th Rock, gave him more than just a sport—it gave him a chance. He entered with no prior athletic experience, yet he was welcomed and supported every step of the way. The environment was not one of judgment, but of growth. He began to build endurance, develop skills, and most importantly, gain confidence in himself.

I would be remiss if I did not specifically acknowledge Coach Max, whose leadership and positive influence have played a significant role in my son’s transformation. His encouragement and belief in each player, regardless of their starting point, created an atmosphere where my son could thrive.

Today, I see a different child. The weight of depression has lifted in ways I once feared might never happen. He now has something to look forward to each week. He is more confident, more engaged, and more willing to try new things. He smiles more. He believes in himself.

12th Rock Rugby didn’t just teach my son how to play a sport—it helped save his life.

I share this story in the hope that others will recognize the profound impact that programs like this can have on young people who are struggling. Access to supportive, inclusive, and encouraging environments is not just beneficial—it is essential.

Thank you to everyone who makes opportunities like this possible. You may not always see the full impact of your work, but I can assure you—it matters more than words can fully express.

With sincere gratitude,

One Tired Mom

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